Hi All,
Daughters are the angels in the
your life because their cute smiles brings you an internal joy that no
other thing in this world can. I am too blessed with an angel in my life
and she is the hope and fuel of my life.
My daughter has taught me innumerable
things which as adults we tend to forget with time and it's the adaptibility
to smile and carry on, no matter what has happened in the past. She leaves
me amazed when I see her living in the moment and enjoying herself fully.
She quickly adapts to the surroundings and tries to make the best of the
same. I still remember when I was in London and she used to live with her
grandparents and my wife was working in another city. She quickly readjusted
to the place of my parents and when my wife used to visit her every weekend
she used to make the best out of those 2 days and one night with her mom.
She understood that mom will leave soon and it took her monday/tuesday
to come back to normal self but then also she enjoyed herself. It was really
tough for us to adjust, but she really did cope up and built herself from
there and she was just 1.5 years old.
Secondly, is her quality to get
whatever she wants in the way she want. She will build stories around and
will try to make you agree by the way of love, smile and sometimes tears
but she will be persistent enough to get the same thing done from
you. She will come running to me and will ask, Papa, you love me? I will
say, yes. Then she will say that Ok, please get my long forgotten toy out
of the storing area as I want to play with the same. Another story, is
when her mother was doing some stitching on the sewing machine and she
wanted to rotate the wheel of the same, but her mother disagreed, so she
ran to her grandmother. She told her that my mom is ruining your sewing
machine, kindly take away your machine from her. This expression was just
because her mother didn't listen to her and she couldn't rotate the sewing
machine wheel.
The third quality is the never
ending Curiosity and the ability to question the logic and reasoning
to understand the world she lives in. Blessed with great listening skills,
she understands everything and asks relevant question and we have to tell
her the logic and reason why that is so and why is goes like this? She
has build up a whole Dholakpur inside her mind and everything runs from
there. She thinks Dholakpur is in Singapore and she has to visit Singapore
to see if it's there or not. Till that time, she doesn't believe that it
doesn't exist in the real world. Last year, her grandparents went to US
and she said that she has not seen US so she wants to go with them next
year. My younger brother has a dog there in states, so she said she will
personally visit to see if the dog does what my brother tell him to? She
will question on anything and everything under the sun and it's our responsibility
to give fuel to her imagination and curiosity. She loves to eat Parle-G
and asked me once what is the G in Parle-G? And as shown in the TV advt,
she asked how the cloth is flowing in the air? She tried to do the same
with her mother dupatta but failed till she tried it in front of air coolar
installed last month. The spark in her eyes and the happiness of achieving
something she wanted really created moments that my family will cherish
forever.
Thanks a lot.
